Firstly, if you are like what I was, who didn't have to wash your own clothes and cook your own food at home, then learn. However, I would gladly suggest you bring your mother or your maid along. Save time, save money. Don't understand why I wrote save money? Yup. Because I think it's more expensive if you burn down the whole kitchen or worst still, the whole house just because you are learning how to cook! Oh, wait. I think that only applies to me. =(
If you are going outstation to study alone, you'll need time management and (yes, Jennie) self discipline. Both of which I'm obviously still lacking. It's not totally my fault when my laptop has a mind of its own and decides to on by itself whenever I'm studying, right? Anyway, get the picture? Without time management and self discipline, I think I'll most likely be skipping classes and hanging around places I'm not supposed to go. The best part is, my parents would'nt know it.
Besides, you'll need an extra pair of eyes. I think I've yet to really learn to heighten my senses. You must be extra cautious as you are not on land you are familiar with. Furthermore, whatever happens, you must be able to contact people who can come to you immediately (save their numbers in speed dials). When you are overseas, discrimination may also occur. Therefore, learn to be street smart from now.
Here's what my friends and I experience in the first few weeks when we came to Subang. It was quite fun for the first few days. To me, it was like going on a vacation. In fact, more like a gathering as we meet up each night for dinner. After a week, the feeling that we left home to study sunk in. Then, we had our moments. Some cried. Some were just moody. i did not cry. Not that it's something to be proud of or anything. But somehow, I just knew that if I let myself go, I'll most likely be crying whenever there are setbacks. I guess I hid that feeling well as most people thought I was going strong.
Yes. I call home every night. I knew my parents would definitely be worried if I broke down, I even willed myself into believing that since my parents already paid a huge sum for my education fees, it would be foolish to pay and come here to cry. However, this became difficult when I fell sick and am alone in a sharing room (when my room mate went back to Johor for her holidays). But with determination, it can be done. I believe my father was pretty much suprised that I took 'leaving home to study' so well. I guess it is also because I went with quite a few of my friends from Johor. They made life here bearable (in the beginning) and fun (later on as we had outings whenever we felt like it). Because of my experience in Subang, I believe I'll be able to survive if I go alone to Australia to further my studies.
For now.
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Cheers.
the student.
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“Keep your mind on your objective, and persist until you succeed. Study, think and plan.”
-W. Clement Stone

